Roxy
09-12-2007, 11:11 AM
I want to share some thing from you which I read from another forum. I found it interesting...
Yep that's how it's been for me, which is a BAD thing, and I know I'm not alone with this, I hope others like me will soon learn how to move forward from it.
My problem is living with a drinker, maybe an excuse, I'm not really sure. He gets mad at me because I don't want to visit others at all, the reason is they all drink and I don't want to be around that, it's bad enough in my own home. I know what others are like to, they insist you have a drink with them, even when you keep saying NO THANKS...next thing you know there's a beer bottle sitting in front of you with the top off..and heavens forbid you be rude. Sooooooooo no thank you to that, I'm finding this part so blasted hard, I don't want to be around it at all.
Guess in time I'll figure this out on what to do, it's so hard to change, real hard, I've been trying so hard. Been walking with my daughter which is a good thing, but then I have to come home again, and fall into the same pattern.
Anyway that's my ramble for today, I just hope others going through this, will soon find the needed strength to change things like I'm needing today too.
All I know is, I don't ever want to go back to that, I'm so afraid if I do that will be it for me, not so sure how many chances we get, and I know I've over used mine.
It tells how difficult it is for the people living with alcoholic to adjust and cope up with the things.
Yep that's how it's been for me, which is a BAD thing, and I know I'm not alone with this, I hope others like me will soon learn how to move forward from it.
My problem is living with a drinker, maybe an excuse, I'm not really sure. He gets mad at me because I don't want to visit others at all, the reason is they all drink and I don't want to be around that, it's bad enough in my own home. I know what others are like to, they insist you have a drink with them, even when you keep saying NO THANKS...next thing you know there's a beer bottle sitting in front of you with the top off..and heavens forbid you be rude. Sooooooooo no thank you to that, I'm finding this part so blasted hard, I don't want to be around it at all.
Guess in time I'll figure this out on what to do, it's so hard to change, real hard, I've been trying so hard. Been walking with my daughter which is a good thing, but then I have to come home again, and fall into the same pattern.
Anyway that's my ramble for today, I just hope others going through this, will soon find the needed strength to change things like I'm needing today too.
All I know is, I don't ever want to go back to that, I'm so afraid if I do that will be it for me, not so sure how many chances we get, and I know I've over used mine.
It tells how difficult it is for the people living with alcoholic to adjust and cope up with the things.