I do not whether I am right or wrong!!!!

[Roxy]

I do not know whether I am wrong or not. I do not drink much just on few occasions like while watching movie at home. My partner do not drink and the problem arises when we go out with friends and I drinks few pegs. The next morning she accuses me of misbehaving which I know I wasn't. I do not know how to tackle this problem???

[Belucci]

I think you are drinking socially and not regularly then there should be problem. Your partner doesn't like your drinking with your friends then I think you should not drink there at least this much you can do for her.

[easternbrain]

Well irrespective of the reason of the fight I think there should be a basic tolerance level and some understanding amongst the partners. If it is present then any issue can be resolved easily.

[marlboro]

There should be some level of understanding between partners. you are very true and I think she should be understanding and try adjust with the situations.

[Mess]

I think drinking once in a while is not bad at all and it should be tolerated. If your partner do not tolerate it then try to talk to her about it and solve the issue.

[websurfpro]

I had experienced the same thing with one of my girlfriends before, but I can tell you a person that carres about you sometimes can over react, it is absolutelly normal to have some drinnk ocassionally when you go out with your buddies. At least this is my opinion.

[why123]

I think drinking once in a while is not bad at all and it should be tolerated. If your partner do not tolerate it then try to talk to her about it and solve the issue.

[LW75]

You're not wrong if you want to go out and have a few drinks with friends.

Still, there's a reason there's that thing people say (when they're talking about not having fun) about "being the only sober one at the party".

You may not be wrong to have your drinks, but your friend is probably not wrong when s/he says you're behaving in some less than appealing way.

Your non-drinking friend should stay home.

[attagirl]

Do you drink everytime you go out with friends? Are they her friends, your friends or both? These all play factor into why you might drink a bit more when you are out. You need to evaluate those and then have a talk with her.

[surfville]

If she can't tolerate it then you might need to learn to stop drinking? because some people just don't want the idea of drinking even with the best and trusted buddies you had before you meet them. Atleast that is just me.

[SandraK]

Are you sure that you're not blacking out?

[Angela Mays]

If you are having problems (arguments) on a continual basis and it has to do with drinking, why not just stop drinking? If you don't have a problem with alcohol then there should be no problem stopping. There are plenty of other things you and your friends can do that do not have to do with alcohol.

[StillHaveHope]

having a few drinks every once in a while in a social setting is fine.
Just a couple things to keep in mind ...

Is your significant other a recovering alcoholic? If so it would be hard to see you drinking and you would need to try to understand that.

Also, it may not be a problem with how often you drink but maybe about how much you drink when you do. If you are only having a few then that is ok, but do you think maybe you surpass your tolerance limit? If you get loud and rowdy, or belligerant, then they also have a right to get upset.

Try to see it from the other persons point of view.
I think maybe in this situation it is not a matter of who is right and who is wrong. Maybe just a matter of perspective and trying to make a compromise in some way. Communication is key to keeping a balanced relationship. Trying talking to them without anger or defenses up and see what is really behind it all. Of course this is only my opinion ....

[zionshael]

It may be good for you if you limit your drinking inside your house. Your partner may be right. At times when a person is drunk, he or she loses his/her right sense.

[reggaeuplifts03]

ask your friends how you acted...

[slangley82]

First ask your friends how you acted, but be willing to give this up, because it is more important to please the person you love than to continue with a behavior that is not necessary.:)