mariposa
11-15-2007, 09:02 PM
I've been dating a man that in everyway is wonderful except when it comes to his kids. By kids I mean a 29 a 26 and a 21 year old. He has owned his own business for 25 yrs and his son has worked for him for the past 5 yrs, The son argues with him about everything telling him he doesn't know what he's doing he's run the business wrong all this time, etc. The anworkers start at 7 he rolls in around 8:30, so you get the work ethic here. The oldest daughter who has moved from 1 guy to another had quit her job and came to work for her Father also, she spends most of the day on the internet and maybe does an hours worth of work a day- she rolls in about 9:30. She also tells him how he doesn't know what he's doing, and he's not supporting them. they team up on him and scream at him at least twice a week. The third is away at school on a scholorship, but he pays her rent, and extras probably about 3,000 per month. When she wants something, she will stay on the line or call 20 times until he gives in. My problem is I can't watch it anymore, I finally told him I couldn't see him anymore until he did something about them. I don't want to give him up, but what is the next step for him and/or me.