found out husband is having sex with men

[sucker punched]

dont know what to do or feel, says he is sex addict, please help me understand this

[happyguy]

Hi, I will look at the problem from two angles. Sometimes, the kind of change we expect in our partners is often what should happen in us. In other words, are you starving him of sex? How often do you discuss openly and on bed? If he is sex starved, are you involved in other things that has taken you away from him? When you sit down and examine these and all other relevant questions, you will be able to determine the source of the problem. After determining where you went wrong, the next step involves him.

Patiently and politely sit him down and have a frank session with him. He is your husband and you should know how to talk to him. Let him see the need for a change and inform him of what you are also going to do to save your marriage. I don't want this session to be a preaching session. Make it a husband and wife session where you don't condemn him but try to help him out of the problem.

Make use of this suggestion and get back to us on ths forum for us to know how it turns out. Good luck!

[Swastik]

How many times you people are doing sex in a week?

This is a very imortant question about a person relationship as you have to know is your husband is satisfied with you ro not? What he really wants from you? You need to discuss and talk about every single point of it.